Anonymous said: He's like 'yeah of course' what could i say?
Something like ‘when are you available?’ I think?
Anonymous said: Thats the thing i normally just keep you know untouched i won't ever open up unless its someone who i feel like they generally care, but hey you do amazing art work and photography, all that. Its my utter dream to go back to Europe one day (guessing from you're there) from all your photos!
Thank you! And yeah I live in Europe :)
Anonymous said: Oh well thanks for that. I'm sorry I'm so bad when it comes to all that.
No it’s OK! I can imagine it’s hard to write to someone like that… I wouldn’t dare it either. But it’s always good to be honest about it.
Anonymous said: How could i message him without sounding needy though? How could I put everything into words when i feel so um confused. But yeah i want to see him again. but i don't know if thats the case with the boy.
Something like, ‘Hey, I enjoyed last Friday night. Feel like hanging out again?’ In a way you feel comfortable saying it?
Anonymous said: Something happened last friday night when i was alone with a boy. We haven't contacted each other since i texted him to know that could trust him. it sounds silly but i should already of had his trust before what happened. Now we haven't contacted each other for a few days but I'm needing to know what we are going to do next? like does he want to see me again? the thing is i don't want to sound needy. what could i do? I'm sorry I'm messed up.
You’re not messed up at all. I think you should send him a message and be honest with him, tell him you liked hanging out with him(from this message I assume you did?) and that you want to hang out again! I don’t think sending one, honest message like that sounds needy. No communication can be worse than miscommunication
Anonymous said: I like you very much for being so nice and helpful to people. It's often easier to find solutions if you're able to look at a situation from the outside and I think you did an amazing job giving advice and listening. :) You're a great person and I wish you all the best. I like the thought that people like you (and me) will be the next generation of adults, because we're frightened but at the same time nice and honest about it. I think that's a good thing. <3 Keep it up love
Wow thank you! I agree, someone else could look entirely different at your situation. I always try to be objective and take the feelings of the other people involved in mind too, even when you dislike them at that moment. Thank you so much again, you seem like a very kind person and I wish you all the best too :)
Anonymous said: Im 16 and i really think im gay but, i havent have any releationship with my same sex (yet), and there's some one of my opposite sex that wants to be with me, im not very intersting in it but right now i really need someone to love and love me back what should i do?
I’d say don’t do it and be honest about this to this person (you don’t owe them an explanation as to why),
Anonymous said: Just the general worries of not knowing what to do with my life but being pushed by everyone around me to start deciding what I want to study next year etc. I don't even know, I just want to make art, listen to good music and live somewhere nice with people I love. I hate this system and society we're all stuck in.
Hey we’re in the same boat.
Anonymous said: i'm so stressed about tomorrow! i have to meet someone i haven't met in a long time and i'm so scared of the things they might say. they could literally crush my dreams and talk me out of the things i want to do??
The only person who should decide what you want to do is you, even if you think you don’t! And especially if it’s someone you haven’t seen in a long time..
If you want to rant or blurt out your worries somewhere or anything, but you don’t know where, my askbox is open